Everything has been very peaceful the last two weeks. For Janet and me. I couldn't take any more visits at night and she couldn't take anymore negative disruptions to her life. The presence in the bedroom does automatically create fear but I understand that they're all only there wanting help. You either have to remind their loved one that they're not really dead or to tell them something. When you're done that things settle down again.
Janet's life seems to be back in harmony with her partner and self. She knows her father still loves her and is with her but he wants her life to be as peaceful and happy as it can be.