Why are we all so bored in life? We have lived in peace for so long that we are taking it for granted and choosing constant drama in our lives.
People think drama is exciting but it can turn deadly. A friend was nearly strangled by her partner in a remote spot which she chose to go to with him to. She had taken violence orders out against him before. She knew what he was like but he was offering her holidays and excitement which she couldn't resist.
He lured her there. At first it was a pleasant dinner on her arrival. He had cooked a delicious dinner for them and they were enjoying each other's company. Then she mentioned a lovely weekend she had just spent with friends. The mood suddenly darkened. He couldn't handle the fact that she had enjoyed herself without him. His hands went around her throat. She kicked him and ran for the door. He grabbed her and threw her down the stairs,
She again became submissive and doing that allowed her to eventually escape and call the police.
Leave him. Choose peace and give up the drama. Look at yourself and see what you've both become. Choose a better life.